HOW TO HANDLE PROBLEMS By:Angelica Villamor

In life we faced many challenges and problems,we may face it in different level, either it’s easy or hard one.But,no matter how hard it is to take it we need to accept the fact that it is real and we need to conquer it with all mind, courage, hope, and determination to solve it. We may sometimes want to escape the reality and forget about it but we can’t. Because the more we are going to get away in it the more it will come and chase after you. There’s no way escaping our problems but to solve it. Knowing the cause of our problems and understanding it is a key in solving it. Through it we can find ways to exterminate our worries and fears on facing our problems before it will be too late.

Steps On Handling Problems

Knowing The Cause Of The Problem

The first thing you need to do is to identify the cause of the problem by knowing how it all started and why it became a problem by recalling your mind on things that happened that caused such problem in your life.

Understanding The Cause Of The Problem

After finding out the reason and cause of your problem the second thing you need to do is to understand it. Take time to understand it very well,hence you can gather ideas on how to solve them in a right way.

Accept Reality And Face The Problem

Now that you already know the cause and you already understand the problem, it is time to accept the fact that it is real and is really happening now in your life. To accept, think that problems are just normal in people’s lives. Face it with full courage you have and stay fearless if possible.

Find Probable Solution To The Problem

By recalling your mind on things that might cause your problem, enlighten your mind and clear it from troubles and worries and stay focus on what to do to solve your problem and how you do it. Make a list on things or steps that can help you guide on solving it.

Check Yourself For Possible Feelings

After deciding on a solution to do, take time to check on yourself for the feelings and emotions you have currently and for the possible feelings and emotions you will have later. Check if you can accept or handle the feelings in the future. Also remember this questions “Can I do this? ” , “Can I take the risk for anything might happen?”,  always ask this questions to yourself before making any move. This will help you decide whether to stop or to go with your solution.

Applying The Solution To Your Problem

I’m sure you already decided to go with your solution that you thought up earlier , so now you are going to apply it to your problem. Apply it calmly , patiently, and positively. Seek moral support from your friends , relatives and family for possible consequences to face and to feel comfortable and to ease the heavy feelings you have.

Stand On Your Decision

Now you are done in solving your problem, stand on your decision no matter what. Be the leader of your own life and be the boss on your own decision. Think that this is just a test and an opportunity to learn something from it and to have courage to pursue life. Make this a lesson you learned and a tool to change you into something you are not, a strong person you never been before and be ready for anything that will come your way.

Accept The Consequences

Accept the consequences that brought to your problem and live in it, just go with the flow and let time heals the wound and move you forward. Let the new memories erase your old ones. Meet new people to replace someone who hurt you. Let past remains in the past and don’t let yourself live in your past cause you are not living in there anymore. Stay positive and strong. Build a future you want to have for your life.

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